Spoken, for the 1st & last time (hopefully)

I have remained silent for quite a long time since the drama and I think it's time to speak my piece.

No doubt that I do judge (who don't), but this affair is just between you & her. She could be having problems & you just happen to be the knight in shining amour (perhaps in the wrong kind of situation; not the social norm); but what I am pissed off is the lies that went through all it.

The one thing I hate is betrayal of trust from my family & friends. I love my friends and want the best for them. However, they choose to lie about it. To think the parties involved are potential-family-member & friend.

By "accusing" me of being a 3rd party in my current relationship is akin to pointing fingers at your brother's integrity. I wonder if this is his own way of justifying his actions? It could be, in his sense, but not mine.

Please, get this straight into your brain. Whatever happens with you & her is your business. I just realised today that there were quite a couple of posts targeted at me (intentionally/unintentionally). To the person who speak of family, this is what I have to say:

Don't speak loosely of family. When they were there to give you advice, you refused to take it. Now that the problem has been created, don't use the word "family" to attempt to solve it. All the while, this problem has been between me and her. I do not appreciate other people being involved.

To her: I do appreciate you taking the 1st step previously to explain things. I don't understand what you've been going through, but I do know that you betrayed my trust. That hurts a lot to me. Trust is something that I value a lot and you had to break it. I am not saying that it's your fault (given your situation) but what done cannot be undone. I would want to trust you again, someday, somehow.

JB Trip in Jul 09

Another lazy Sunday afternoon spent in front of the computer; I wonder if this will be my weekly Sunday routine for 2010? With Leecher's laptop @ the service centre, I forsee that I will be arrowed to blog more in the coming weeks :(

Another JB trip in July 09! With my lovely sisters, Fling & Qian.

Settled our lunch at Shun Fa Bak Kut Teh, cuz Qian didn't get to try it previously. Fling went to pack 纸包鸡 as well.

Leecher & Qian spotted with lots of cuttlefish products upon seeing the signboard.

The agenda of the trip: for Leecher to take a dip in Fling's pool. Leecher has been complaining that we deprived him of his chance to swim during our last visit. Thus, to save my ears from unnecessary noise pollution, we decided to grant Leecher's his wish. It was very windy @ Fling's apartment that we could barely open our eyes!

Mahjong session after a good swim. Guess whose winning tiles?

Leecher-with-his-cui-hairdo-and-winning-tiles.

Dinnertime @ Hak Seng, once again. Though I am not a fish person, but I love the sweet and sour fish here! Even the vegetables taste nice. No wonder people keep flocking to this place though the owner has got serious attitude problem. We looked pretty tired after a long day of feasting & activities. You can be assured that there will be more such trips, as we are about to plan our 1st JB trip of 2010 :)

Xmas Gathering with Uni Mates

Kicked off the first of Xmas gatherings the following day after Japan trip @ EK's place.

We adhered to the potluck theme & "magically" conjured the dishes for our Xmas spread :)

• Sushi Platter (EK & Pris)
• Homemade Salad (Leecher)
• Curry Chicken & Bee Hoon (Me)
• Chicken Wings (Yaozu)
• Homemade Sandwiches (MQ)
• Wine (Kenneth)
• Cake (Ray)

As per the theme, all of them have to be dressed in Xmas colours of red, green, silver or gold.

Green Team (EK missing in picture!)

Red Team

They decided to celebrate the Dec babies bdae using Ray's cake :)

The Dec babies!

I took my wish-making very seriously! I hope for ..... *secret*

Time to blow out the candles! The others are dying to eat the cake by now.

Sealing it with a kiss

Before that, the very considerate me volunteered to remove candle wax on the cake. They "blamed" me for it cuz I took a long time to make my wish :(

Keeping up with the tradition for the 2nd year & many years counting!

Boozing the Night away

Headed off to The Bar @ Morton for their lychee martinis & filet mignon sandwiches. When Leecher arrived at 5.06pm, he was denied of a table as the bar was already full! A line was beginning to form @ the bar near the restaurant, where doors opened at 5.30pm.

The divine filet mignon sandwiches; even Leecher likes it too!

Can't wait to sink his teeth into the tender beef.

The potent drinks; I doubt I can ever go for seconds if I don't want to end up looking like a monkey's ass.

Enjoying our drinks amidst the crowd.

A call from EK and we arrived at City Space for another round of booze

Nice view from high above

Cheers to a great 2010 ahead!

Feasting with food buddy p3

The start of a new year marks a new beginning. At footprints, we decided to make a new year resolution: to clear as many backdated posts as possible! (I wonder how long we can keep up with this resolution though, haha) True enough, I am sitting @ home on the 3rd day of 2010 looking through my extremely outdated pictures and diligently posting the pictures into our blog.

The last segment of food feasting with MQ @ Out-Of-The-Pan :) Roped in Leecher too, due to the 1-for-1 offer!

Fling introduced me to this song while KTV-ing in JB & I got MQ to translate it for me. I wonder how is Fling's progress in learning this song?

First, you decide on the fillings followed by the flavours of the crepes. With 1-for-1 offer, it's too good a deal to be missed. We had to stuff ourselves silly with 4 crepes ordered:

• Korean BBQ Pork
• Seafood Jungle
• Peking Duck
• Wok Fried Butter Cream Prawns

If you are interested in reading more about the food review - you may refer to this link :)

Thank You, Edward!

Thanks Edward for the bdae gift ~ Muacks!

Happy 2010

To a great year ahead - one that is filled with happiness, always :)